Confessions of a Retired Pastor

Confessions of a Retired Pastor

My Title Was Not My Identity

Titles inevitably change. Roles eventually end. But a person cannot depend entirely on a role to tell them who they are.

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DeForest B. Soaries, Jr.
Feb 25, 2026
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One of the questions people often ask me about retirement is whether I experienced emotional withdrawal after leaving the pastorate.

The honest answer is no.

I don’t say that casually, and I don’t say it critically of anyone who has struggled with the transition. I say it because, for many years, I made a conscious decision: I did not want my personal ide…

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