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DeForest B. Soaries, Jr.'s avatar

Wow. I remember that very well. I'm glad you encountered the right deacon!!!😂😂😂Thanks for reaching out. Please stay in touch.

John A Blackman's avatar

Dr Soaries : I'm a (soon retiring) Canadian Pastor. Decades ago I heard you preach once or twice at the Moody Pastors Conf. In the early 2000s I had brought my youth group to Camden NJ on a missions trip. I planned to make a stop for a Lincoln Gardens visit on our way home on a Sunday morning. I wrote you ahead of time to express my intentions and told you it wasn't for the purpose of a mere "experience" but to give my students a contrast to what they would observe in Camden. You wrote back with a "We'd love to have you" note.

Months later we show up for the second service...(If we had come to the early service we would have heard a special Youth Speaker from Saskatchewan!).

As we stood outside the front doors (a bunch of under dressed Canadian Youth) a large man poked his head out the door...in my memory I see an intimidating version of Bernie Mac! He quite sternly asked where we were from and after I answered he said "Have you arranged for seats?" I quickly relayed the mail conversation we had shared. He said he would be right back. He returned and said" "The Pastor Will see you." He led me downstairs and seated me outside your audience ( I am sure my wife, volunteers and youth group wondered where I'd gone!).

After a couple of minutes of feeling like a real spectacle on a chair outside your office he returned and led me in. You warmly welcomed me and after a quick exchange remembered my letter and the Moody reference. You told me to "make sure my kids did not all clump together in the pews but to spread out!"

By the time I got up there, they had already entered and had done just that ...I went and sat a distance away and no one knew why. Once we were standing for a hymn you welcomed us and then told people to come and take our seats so we had to spread out. I remember some of my guys ended up seated on the platform behind you looking like Forest Gump superimposed into the scene!

I'm sure it was the most powerful part of our trip. Those teenagers are all well into their 40s now. The visit was everything I hoped it would be. Those kids experienced such a gourmet meal of perspective, encouragement and faith building.

I imagine any white person choosing to join your church in those days, would likely be disappointed if doing so diluted the Spirit and community joy we observed that day.

John Blackman

Brooklin Ontario Canada

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